Jaye asked:


My fiance and I just broke up a few days ago. Horrible break up . I broke up with him after 5 days of him being a **** while he was home on leave from the Army.
He’s coming by today or tomorrow to get his stuff at my house and then leaving to go across the country to where he’s based. I’m so in love with him and I don’t want this to end… what can I do when he comes over to pull him back?
I was thinking opening the door wearing **** lingerie but I have a feeling that will just degrade me and make me look like a desperate loon…. I was thinking about writing him a letter and tucking it into the blanket he gave me? any suggestions? This is my last chance, I may never see him again

IDFgivati asked:


hay so well i been living here for 3 months now and am about to move in this time I have become realy close to a girl who is 21 years old I am 18 but in the military next month, now we like the same music eat the same things it is like were are the same person I mean I never share food because of germs etc but with her we eat ice cream using the same spoon etc and we share drinks we got sick at the same time because of this shareing but we still do it, she has kissed me on the head and keeps telling me when i dont look so innocent i will be cute and hot etc, as we walk through the town she holds on to my arm leans on me and we properly hold hands some times, problem is she has a boyfriend who is not in the army and not in the nation at the moment but will be back but even before he left she acted like this with me, problem is i am moving away this week due to my military service i am being deployed, but question is does this girl like me as more than friends or what i am realy confused i mean she comes in sits in my room, and talks to me when i am watching moves and siting there in my shirt and boxers (of coure i have a blanket over me though) but what is going on i am so confused
hmm but the point is why does she do this, keeps doing and saying these things to me, i mean what if she broke it off with him i mean it is heading that way anyway and i am moving soon

PIMP DADDY asked:

Ok Y’all my girl friend was talkin’ to me the other day about this life time movie she saw a long time ago, and how she really liked it, so i figured for our 1 year anniversary i would get this movie and we could snuggle up under the blanket and watch it together…so here all i remember its like about 2 little boys and they have a father thats like in the army or somethin and he make the kids dress up like they’re in the army and kinda towards the end they end up throwing all these pills down the toilet and after that the car they’re in gets blown up, so if you could help with the name of the movie that’d be great.

lonelydisaster asked:

Ok, So I have an ex boyfriend who i was very much in love with, well the relationship ended because he wanted it to, of course, and he had a new girlfriend that same day. The same day he broke up with me he blocked me from his life, myspace, face book, and aim. For months I didn’t talk to him. One day he added me back on myspace and I accepted. Since he is in the army he went to afghanistan. While he was in afghanistan I sent him packages, Anything he asked for he got (ex. PSP, Tab books, non-preishable food, socks, pillow, blanket,etc), We also talked to him everyday through myspace, he sometimes called me too. Well he went on leave and came back and hung out with me for one day and then ignored me the rest of the time.He always said he had stuff to do, meaning girls. Which I don’t care because I see him or thought he was my friend. not being able to talk to him while he is on leave as my friend, Hurts even more than when he broke up with me.
I now feel like the biggest most worthless girl, and once again not good enough. I also felt incredibly ugly and fat. All i wanted from him was his friendship. Nothing more.
Now my question is, Is it ok that I feel so angry, so USED, and so hurt by his actions that I have started not to care about anything and have a bad attitude towards everyone. I feel that everyone sees me as a bank and never takes me seriously and never appreciates me so I push Everyone away and don’t let them in my life, is it ok to feel that way? Also is it wrong for me when he returns to Afghanistan, that I tell him off and cut all contact with him? I really feel alone right now, I feel like no one understands just how much he has hurt me. Please help!

Jaime asked:

so i’m shy, and i’ve been talking to a guy on facebook for a while that’s in my band class. he’s surrounded by his friends a lot, and when he’s not, i still have a hard time talking to him.
the ice was bit when i was walking out of school one night, i was dragging a bag with army blankets after a competition. he was laughing and giving me a hard time. how do i make myself look approachable and how do i talk to him when i’m soo shy!?

help!!!

Megg asked:

Im 19 and my boyfriend is 25.. He has served in the military for 7 years and has went overseas several times. He now suffers from PTSD but I know that hes still very proud of what all hes done.

Now my question is..For christmas do you think itd be a good idea to get him a personalized army blanket with his picture in his uniform on it and the dates that he served? Or is that a bad idea? When I first thought of this I thought it was like the best idea ever lol..but I asked this question in the ‘military’ section and most of them say it was a bad idea cause I would just be reminding him of what he did and saw over there. What do you think? Thanks! : ) Merry Christmas to you all!