How do i talk to the guy outside of facebook?
so i’m shy, and i’ve been talking to a guy on facebook for a while that’s in my band class. he’s surrounded by his friends a lot, and when he’s not, i still have a hard time talking to him.
the ice was bit when i was walking out of school one night, i was dragging a bag with army blankets after a competition. he was laughing and giving me a hard time. how do i make myself look approachable and how do i talk to him when i’m soo shy!?
help!!!


I’m shy too so I can definitely relate to your problem and you should just talk to him sometime. Tell yourself that you have to be brave or else you’ll regret knowing a great guy.
Good luck! I think he’s waiting for you to talk to him.
well if you talk to him on facebook then just ask him over that be like “hey we should hang out sometime” and see what he says or say something like ” what’s your phone number anyway?” or something along those lines should work.
since you talk alot on facebook, why not ask him to meet you alone, before/after class just to talk?
You just have to be way more confident than you are being. Confidence is one trait that guys look for in a girl. And when you do talk to him make sure that you be yourself 100% and show your true personality. If, you don’t then he won’t even be talking to the “real” you. Be confident. Be yourself. And you will get the guy.